fix(deps): bump better-sqlite3 to ^12.4.5, add runtime-aware bin wrapper
- Bump better-sqlite3 from ^11 to ^12.4.5 for Node 25 support (prebuilds
+ V8 API compat). Closes #257.
- Add bin/qmd shell wrapper that detects bun vs node install and execs
with the matching runtime, preventing native module ABI mismatches
when installed via bun. Closes #319.